GROWING TIRED OF THE CONGREGATION WHERE YOU WORSHIP?
by Steve Waller
Be careful before you answer the question above!
Occasionally, one may be heard saying something like, "I am so tired of
the congregation where I worship. I want to find someplace else to
go!" It's not that there is anything wrong with the local church
from a doctrinal standpoint, or that there is any great disunity--one
just becomes bored or weary. How can we resolve this situation?
First, remember that life is usually as good or ill,
happy or unhappy as we make it. The same holds true with one's
marriage! One says, "I'm tired of this life," or, "I'm tired of my
husband." Such expressions may indicate that we fail to understand
that life, our job, and our marriage take a lot of work, a lot of
maintenance. Some think you get a job and just go to work and one
day own the company, or that you get married and the marriage just kind
of grows and takes care of itself on its own. Of course, that's
why people are bored in life, with work, and at home. Anything
worth doing or having is worth maintaining with all diligence.
This is no less true in the local congregation.
A person or family places membership with a local
church. At first, everyone and everything is new, exciting, and
challenging. The various programs of work are different than they
have experienced before, they get to meet new people and start
developing new friendships, and the preacher and his preaching style are
different from what we have had in the past. Then, reality sets in
after a while. One begins to learn that people in the congregation
are not perfect; and, we may not get along with one of two, or some
problem may arise in the church. The programs begin to look old
and we get tired of looking at and hearing the same preacher every
Sunday. In other words, the honeymoon is over. What do we
do?
Some start looking for another congregation to
attend. Some just quit. If that happened in one's marriage,
and one simply decided to seek another marriage partner or just quit the
marriage, as some do, what a tragic thing that would be! Others
recognize the need for loyalty and steadfastness where they are.
They roll up their sleeves and work more diligently. They begin
working harder to apply the sermons and Bible class lessons to their
lives. They become more actively involved in the work of the
church. They start spending more time learning more of the Bible
and developing their talents to be used in the programs of work in the
congregation they now attend. They "stretch" themselves and grow
spiritually.
Brethren, we owe the local church our loyalty, our
faithful attendance at all services (Sunday and Wednesday), our active
involvement, and participation in the various works of the congregation,
and our full expression of love in our giving. We owe it our
gratitude, our words of encouragement, and our efforts to strengthen and
"talk up" the church everywhere we go, a positive attitude toward
evangelism, and our wholehearted worship in spirit and in truth.
We owe the local church our cooperation, participation, enthusiasm, and
support in every way that is Scriptural! And, if we aren't giving
it our full and first priority (Mt 6:24,33), then we have little right
to complain, or start looking for "greener pastures."
The answer does not lie in some unscriptural
"gimmick" to keep us happy, contented, and attending! . . . IT LIES
WITHIN OURSELVES! It's a matter of getting our thinking and
priorities in line with what God requires of us.
THE ASSEMBLING OF OURSELVES TOGETHER
Joe R. Price
We need to talk plainly and think seriously about
attendance at our worship services. It is out of love for your soul that
these comments are made. The difference between how many are present for
our Sunday morning Bible classes and worship, and the number present at
our Sunday evening worship services has started to grow. I fully
understand (and everyone else should, too) that some of our brethren are
not physically able to attend all of our services. We believe that God
takes such limitations into account (2 Cor. 8:12). At the same time, if
physical ailment is not keeping you from attending our worship services,
then what is? As far as I know, our Sunday night assembly (and for that
matter, our Wednesday night meeting) is a scheduled part of this
church's work, and as such is not an optional consideration.
All of our scheduled assemblies fall under the
exhortation of Hebrews 10:24-25: "...And let us consider one another
in order to stir up love and good works; not forsaking the assembling of
ourselves together, as is the manner of some, but exhorting one another,
and so much the more as you see the Day approaching." Given this
divine edict, should we not make every effort to be present at every one
of our assemblies? To "forsake" means "to leave behind, abandon"
(Vine, II:126).
Are you choosing to "leave behind" some of our scheduled assemblies? If
so, this passage says you are sinning against God. You need to repent in
order to correct your current "manner" (habit, custom). As we attempt to
help urge faithful attendance, consider with me some reasons why we
should attend every assembly of God's children.
1. It is our RESPONSIBILITY to assemble to worship
God. God seeks true worshippers who will worship Him in spirit and
truth (Jn. 4:23-24). The true worshipper overcomes obstacles that
would keep him from worshipping his God. What obstacle stands in your
way from assembling to worship with your brethren at the regularly
scheduled meetings? Distance? Time? Work? Exhaustion? Recreation? We
must work hard to not allow hindrances to become stumbling blocks to our
obedience. Sacrifice is needed to be a disciple of Jesus (Lk. 9:23).
That may mean a few extra miles of travel, or getting up an hour
earlier, Or going to bed an hour earlier the night before, Or changing
our work schedule. Remember, we must seek God's kingdom and His
righteousness first (Matt. 6:33). Shouldn't that include assembling with
the saints to worship God? After all, when we can always be present and
on time for our jobs and social events, shouldn't we be doing the same
for the Lord?
2. It is our PRIVILEGE to assemble to worship God.
Sadly, some Christians view attendance at worship services as a burden,
rather than a joy. This is not an expression of loving God, but rather
one of drudgery, compromise and complaint (1 Jn. 5:3). David said, "I
was glad when they said unto me, Let us go unto the house of Jehovah"
(Ps. 122:1). What a privilege to worship our Creator and Redeemer!
When we forget the honor attached to worshipping God, we have turned our
worship into cold formalism that will not be accepted by God (cf. Matt.
15:8-9). We must constantly assess our attitude toward worship in order
to help us avoid forsaking the assembling of ourselves together. It is
not done to be seen of men or to be held in honor by men, but to give
honor to God who saves us and gives us eternal life through Jesus
Christ! (Matt. 6:1; Jn. 12:42-43)
3. It is a BLESSING to assemble to worship God. If
you consider yourself blessed by attending one worship service a week,
would not attending all of them be an even greater blessing? Every
worship service offered to God "in spirit and truth" will bless
those who faithfully participate in them (Jn. 4:24). By such we are
encouraged to "continue steadfastly" (Acts 2:42) while being
"provoked unto love and good works" (Heb. 10:24). Thus, God blesses us
whenever we worship Him (Jn. 4:23), and, by your presence at all of our
assemblies, your influence is blessing someone else (Matt. 5:16)! So, by
not forsaking our assembling together we not only receive a blessing, we
are also a blessing to others! No blessing is being received or given
when we are absent.
Let us all renew our commitment to fully participate
in our worship services by being present for all of them. We cannot
please God while neglecting to obey Hebrews 10:24-25. May we take to
heart the responsibility, privilege and blessing of assembling together
to worship our God.
CHURCH HISTORY: A BIBLICAL VIEW
Part VI - No. 42 Compiled and written by Gary Eubanks
The Modern Age: The Restoration
Movement
Once the pioneer preachers of the Restoration
Movement, such as Stone and the Campbell's, had formulated the basic
principles of the Movement, they began to preach with a vigor that
stimulated the church to a period of phenomenal growth. Estimates among
the disciples themselves placed their numbers at 100,000 in 1836 and at
200,000 or even 300,000 in 1850. According to the census of 1850 the
disciples constituted the fourth largest religious body in the nation.
The census of 1870 placed it at fifth place. The zealous labors of the
pioneer preachers, as well as the freedom from denominational shackles
offered by the Restoration to liberty-loving Americans, powered this
period of rapid progress. However, disruptive influences lay on the
horizon, and they threatened to hamper, or even undo, all of this
progress.
I. The Civil War
The Civil War was greatly disruptive to the American
religious scene, and churches of Christ did not remain unscathed. Some
churches were divided and others were so discouraged that they ceased to
meet. The whole nation, including many brethren, were so caught up with
war fever that little room was left in their hearts for spiritual
concerns (I Tim. 2:1,2). Young men of the church went off to join the
ranks of the Blue and the Gray, and not a few of them died in battle.
Some preachers deplored brethren taking up arms against one another,
while others, forgetting their calling and disclaiming their brethren in
the opposing section, themselves unsheathed the sword. One preacher and
college president by the name of James A. Garfield became noted for his
valor, was promoted to the rank of brigadier-general, and eventually
became the twentieth president of the United States.
Two questions were brought to the attention of
Christians by the Civil War or its issues. One was the slavery question.
Could a Christian Scripturally own slaves? If so, how was he required to
treat them? Though there were extremists on both sides of the question,
it seems that most preachers were neutral and encouraged Christians in
the North and South not to allow this to become a divisive issue. As a
result, the church of Christ was one of the few churches in the nation
that did not divide over this issue. The prevailing view among brethren
seemed to be that slavery was a political, rather than moral, question.
The Bible did not expressly forbid slavery but rather regulated it (Lev.
25:39-46; I Cor. 7:17-24; Eph. 6:5-9; Philemon). Most brethren, while
wishing to avert religious division and war over this matter, probably
hoped that slavery would eventually be brought to a peaceable and legal
end.
The other question to attract Christian's concerns
was the Christian's participation in carnal warfare. Again, the most
devout and influential preachers were opposed to brethren's involvement
in warfare and pled with brethren not to become involved, though their
pleas seem to have fallen on deaf ears for the most part.
II. The Missionary Society
Since most denominational congregations during the
Restoration Movement formed themselves into inter-congregational
associations of some sort, the question of "cooperation" was soon raised
among the brethren. While those in Stone’s following looked with
suspicion at such organizing efforts, those of Campbell's following
seemed to think that some sort of extra-congregational cooperation or
organization was well-nigh essential to the progress of the cause.
Consequently, brethren at first began to meet in informal, district
gatherings. However, as time went by these "cooperation meetings"
increased in formality and scale. District meetings became state
meetings, and state meetings became national meetings. At first, such
meetings were defended on the basis that they were only intended to
encourage, inform, and unify brethren, and promote evangelism. Alexander
Campbell wrote extensively in defense of greater organization among
local churches. Brethren finally met in Cincinnati, Ohio in 1849 and
formed the American Christian Missionary Society. Alexander Campbell was
elected its first president. As soon as the Society was formed
opposition to it began to mount. Interrupted temporarily by the Civil
War, this opposition continued to increase until conflict over the
Society gradually issued in an open breech of fellowship between the
advocates and the adversaries in the latter half of the Nineteenth
Century. The bases of objections to the missionary society have varied,
but the most notable ones may be summarized as follows: (1) there is no
Scriptural authority for it, (2) it is not needed, for the church is
sufficient to do the spiritual work that needs to be done, (3) it
supplants the church, and (4) it infringes upon the independence and
autonomy of the local churches.
III. Instrumental Music
About the time that the American Christian Missionary
Society got underway the question of instrumental music in the worship
of the churches arose. Not long before the Civil War the church at
Midway, Kentucky became the first church on record to introduce
instrumental music into worship (supposedly to aid their deplorable
singing). Practically every church and preacher of influence, including
Campbell himself, stood united in their opposition to instrumental music
in worship. However, following the Civil War churches began to use the
instrument more and more and the battle over it was joined with
increasing fury. The objections to instrumental music in worship have
substantially been: (1) that it is an unauthorized addition to the
singing directed by the New Testament (Eph. 5:19; Col. 3:16), (2) that
it is not instructive to the intelligence (I Cor. 14:15), and (3) that
it is contrary to the spiritual character of the church's worship. The
contentions over the missionary society and the instrument, as well as
lesser ones, finally escalated into a division among the churches that
was formally recognized by the Religious Census in 1906.
Food For Thought
"Don't pray to escape trouble. Don't pray to be
comfortable in your emotions. Pray to do the will of God in every
situation. Nothing else is worth praying for." -
Samuel M. Shoemaker
"I have found the greatest power in the world is the
power of prayer." -
Cecil B. DeMille
We
hope you find this bulletin useful in your Bible study.
2
Sam 22:31
As for God, His way is
perfect; The word of the LORD is proven; He is a shield to all who trust
in Him. NKJV
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