Recipe for a Good Day
Donnie V. Rader
Have you ever had a bad
day? Do you ever have those days when nothing seems to go right? Does it
ever feel like the pressures of life pile up some days? If you haven’t,
you’re unlike the rest of us. We all have those days. However, Peter
said something that will help during those times. For he that will love
life, and see good days, let him refrain his tongue from evil, and his
lips that they speak no guile: let him eschew evil, and do good; let him
seek peace, and ensue it. (1
Peter 3:10-1)
We can make our
days good. If we determine to have a good day—we will! This doesn’t
mean that we won’t have some bad days. There will be times that we are
sad and even depressed. We will be sick some days. Things will not always
go right or the way we expect them to. This doesn’t mean that when we
have such days that it is always our fault or that we have sinned. Yet, we
can make even those days better. We have some control.
Life is too short not to
enjoy living and having good days. The Bible gives us the recipe for
having a good day. The following are some things that I have thought upon
for sometime. They have helped me a great deal. I believe that I have
better days and am a better person as a result of adhering to these
points. Every one of the rules is a part of eschewing evil, doing good and
seeking peace.
Begin your day with
prayer. What better way can you think of to start the day off right?
Jesus taught that men ought always to pray (Luke 18:1) The
reasons are obvious. How refreshing it is to spend some time with God in
prayer in the morning.
We have so much to pray for
when we rise to begin a new day. We ought to thank God for the night’s
rest and another day. We should pray for God’s protection and care
throughout the day. We will need His help in overcoming temptations that
we will face (Matthew 6:13). We should pray for strength and
help to make it through the day (1 Peter 5:7). I realize more and
more each day how much I have to depend upon God and His power. I need and
want to begin my day with prayer.
We also need to pray for
God’s help in our following the recipe for a good day.
Look at life through
(Hebrews 13:14). When we awake we
should put on the glasses of faith and view the world through the
statement, For here have we no continuing city, but we seek one to
come. Then, we will realize that nothing in this world is continuing
or abiding. All is temporary. All that really matters is being right with
God. Everything else is not all that important. Whether or not I have a
fine home, a late model car, the latest fashion or a sizeable bank account
doesn’t matter. Whether or not I have a good education, am popular, have
a lot of abilities or am successful in business doesn’t really matter.
So what if I have little or no money, fewer talents than others or wear
second-hand clothes, that’s not going to ruin my day.
Realize that
mistakes and inability are not failures. If
we let them, such can look like monumental failures. We are human; we will
make mistakes and even sin (1 John 1:8). That’s true of all. Even
men like Paul, Peter and James made mistakes.
We must realize that some
of us just have fewer abilities than others. This is quite clear from the
parable of the talents (Matthew 25).
We must also understand
that we will make mistakes, but those mistakes are not failures. If we
serve God faithfully, we are a success (Joshua 1:8). Learn not to
dwell upon those past mistakes, but rather look to the future (Philippians
3:13).
Realize that there will be
problems; all have them. Everything
is not going to be as I want it. There will be disappointments and change
of plans. There will be those times when things just don’t fall in
place. Everyone shares in these experiences. Job faced problem on top of
problem. We sometimes could wish as David did that we had wings like a
dove, for then we would fly away and be at rest (Psalms
55:6-7). The words of Ann Johnson Flynt say it well:
God hath not promised
Sun without rain,
Joy without sorrow,
Peace without pain.
But God hath promised
Strength for the day,
Rest for the labor,
Light for the way,
Grace for the trials,
Help from above,
Unfailing sympathy,
Undying love.
Exercise patience
throughout the day. Patience is
bearing with the problems and trials without complaint. We must add
patience to our faith (2 Peter 1:5-10). We need to be patient with
ourselves, our mistakes, failures and inability. Patience is needed in
dealing with the problems of life (James 5:11). We must be
longsuffering in overcoming sin and weaknesses. No case is hopeless. With
God’s help, we can overcome our problems and sins (Philippians
4:13)
Be temperate. Temperance
is self-control. It is easy to let our tempers get out of hand and “fly
off the handle.” Self-control doesn’t come easy. We must continually
work at it. Nevertheless, God requires it (2 Peter 1:5-10).
When we are temperate
things will go better throughout the day. We will get along with others.
It just makes for a better day.
Don’t worry. Some
folks can ruin their day worrying about things that don’t really matter
anyway. We worry about what did happen, what could have happened and what
is going to happen. However, worry doesn’t do one bit of good. Jesus
said that a man cannot add one cubit to his stature by worrying about it (Matthew
6:27). If you can do something about the matter, do it and quit
worrying. If not, what will the worrying accomplish? We need to learn to
cast our cares upon God (1 Peter 5:7)
Don’t let life get you
down. Too many let the
affairs of life bother them. It keeps them wound up and uptight. When this
happens, they become fretful about life in general. Again, we must learn
to talk to God about our problems. Also, our thoughts must be redirected
to dwell on the good and pleasant (Philippians 4:6-8)
Be happy. Some
apparently think that happiness is something that just happens to you. If
you’re not happy, you can’t help it. However, God commands us to rejoice
(Philippians 4:4). We must work at it. It is something we have
to learn to do. We must try to be happy in spite of any problems and
trials we may have.
Be content. When
one is discontented he is unhappy and thus has a bad day. Sometimes we
complain if we don’t get our way. That not only ruins our day, but it
messes things up for others as well. If we could only learn to be
satisfied (1 Timothy 6:8), we would have good days. Paul learned to
be content in whatever state he was (Philippians 4:11). The Hebrews
were told to be content with such things as they had (Hebrews 13:5).
Let’s try to eliminate
those bad days. We can purposely have many good days. Serve God faithfully
and you will see good days.
Searching the Scriptures
October 1985
CHURCH HISTORY: A
BIBLICAL VIEW
Part III - No. 15 Compiled and written by Gary Eubanks
The Nicene Age: The Papacy
and Monasticism
I. The Growth of Papal Power
The "official"
end of the Roman Empire is usually viewed as the deposition of the last
Roman emperor, Romulus Augustulus, by the German general, Odoacer, in 476
A.D. However, the process of deterioration in the Empire had begun long
before that date. The collapse of the Roman Empire plunged the Western
world into a long period of depression and chaos known as the "Dark
Ages," but the Roman Church did not share the fate of the Empire.
Actually, the collapse of the Empire before the barbarian hordes served
the interests of the Roman Church in that it left the Church as the one
stable and durable institution in the midst of a political and cultural
morass. As men looked more and more to the Roman Church for guidance and
stabilizing force the Church began to assume the role left to it by a
decaying political system. Thus, the fall of Rome was just another step in
a long series of steps toward the primacy of the Roman bishop.
The sons of Constantine had
convened the Council of Sardica in 343 in an effort to resolve the
controversy gendered by Arianism. In this effort the Council was a
failure, but it is noteworthy that the Council did decide that a deposed
bishop had the right to appeal his case to the Roman bishop, who could
call for a retrial and keep the episcopal seat at issue vacant until a
decision was made known by Rome.
The primacy of the Roman
bishop was also advanced by a couple of its more ardent advocates who
served as bishops of Rome. Innocent I (402-417) claimed that the Roman
Church was the custodian of apostolic tradition and that its bishop had
universal jurisdiction. Leo I (440-461) taught that Peter had primacy
among the apostles and that this primacy was passed on to his successors.
Despite these bold assertions, the Council of Chalcedon (451) placed
Constantinople on a practical equality with Rome. (Constantine moved the
capital of the Roman Empire to Constantinople, which survived the fall of
Rome and served as the capital of the Byzantine Empire for another
thousand years.) This was just another harbinger of the schism that was
developing between the East and West, but the primacy of the Roman bishop
was being set forth in theory even though it was not yet fully observed in
practice.
Several important
observations need to be made about the developing theory of the primacy of
the Roman Church and its bishop. (1) The Scriptures do not teach that
Peter had primacy among the apostles. As a matter of fact, they teach that
he was no more than their equal (Matt. 20:20-28; 23:8-12; Acts 15:1-29;
Gal. 2:1-14). (2) The Scriptures make no provision for the perpetuation of
the apostolic office. Particularly, they do not provide for any successors
to Peter's supposed primacy. A personal, post-resurrection appearance of
Jesus to one was essential to his accession to the apostolate (Acts
1:21,22), and Paul said that he was the last one to whom Jesus appeared (I
Cor. 15:8). This implies that Paul was the last one even qualified to be
an apostle. Again, when Matthias was chosen to replace Judas it was not by
any deliberative or voting process among the apostles but rather by means
of God's direct intervention in what would otherwise have been a selection
by mere chance (Acts 1:21-26). (3) Even if Peter had had primacy among the
apostles and others are to succeed him in that primacy, the Scriptures
certainly do not teach the successor must always be the bishop of the
Church in Rome. The Scriptures do not even say that the Roman church had
bishops, much less that Peter was ever one of them. Neither do they teach
that the Roman church,, as opposed to, or in addition to, the Scriptures,
was to be the reservoir or preserver of apostolic teaching. The papal
system requires many Scripturally unfounded assumptions.
II. The Growth of
Monasticism
Monasticism is essentially
seclusion from the world for religious purposes and usually involves
ascetic practices to some degree. The beginning of monasticism in the
Church is traced to Anthony (b. 250) in Egypt. In his youth he sold his
possessions, and went into solitude, engaging in prayer and the strictest
self-denial. A certain Pachomius supposedly improved monasticism by
establishing the first monasteries. Thus, two types of monasticism
developed: (1) the hermitic, which involved isolation from other
individuals, and (2) cenobitic, which involved communal living. In the
first half of the Sixth Century the Benedictine order was established with
its emphasis upon frequent periods of common worship, manual labor, and
study.
There were several reasons
why the monastic life appealed to some individuals. (1) The letup in Roman
persecutions allowed for a great increase in converts, many of whom were
not serious-minded or were outright worldly. Some, therefore, sought
higher levels of spirituality by physical separation from the Church at
large. (2) A cessation of martyrdoms left monasticism as the greatest sign
of the highest level of spirituality to which one could aspire. (3) For
some monasticism was a mere flight from the world. (4) The ancients also
esteemed more highly the virtue of a contemplative life than that of
active service to mankind. (5) Growing formalism in worship led some to
seek a more individual approach to God through monasticism.
Of course, there are also a
number of Scriptural problems with monasticism. (1) It creates a double
standard between the monk and the ordinary Church-member. Why would it be
right for the ordinary Church-member to do what would be wrong for the
monk? (2) As a corollary to the preceding point, monasticism encourages
sub-standard holiness on the part of the ordinary Church-member. (3)
Monasticism is not taught in the Scriptures. Quite to the contrary,
separation from the world is condemned (Jn. 17:1416; I Cor. 5:9-11).
Christians are to go into the world (Mk. 16:15) and be its salt and light
(Matt. 5:13-16; 9:10-13). How can they accomplish this task if they shut
themselves off from the world? Furthermore, the asceticism of monasticism
is condemned as valueless and unholy (Col. 2:23; I Tim. 4:1-5).
Some Suggestions For
Your Daily Routine
Greg Gwin
We all have some things
that we do with great regularity. Certain activities are a part of every
day - things like bathing, dressing, brushing teeth, etc. Each person will
have other unique practices that are incorporated into their normal
routine. And, while it is possible to "get in a rut," some of
this regularity is important and helpful in making us more efficient
individuals. With that idea in mind, we'd like to suggest some things that
ought to become a regular part of every Christian's daily routine. Every
day we should...
Pray. Pray
daily for your fellow Christians, especially remembering the sick, the
bereaved, those who are spiritually weak, those laboring under heavy
burdens, and others who have special needs. Don't let these prayers be
totally "general" in nature. Think of specific individuals and
mention them by name in your prayers.
Give.
Thanks. In the course of your prayers, do not neglect to thank the
Heavenly Father for all the wonderful blessings that He gives us. Again,
be specific. Taking the time to "count your blessings" every day
will help you to gain a greater appreciation for what God has done for
you. Especially spend time contemplating the great spiritual blessings we
have in Christ.
Study. Find
some time each day to spend in the study of God's Word. Get up a few
minutes earlier each day, break away in the middle of the day, or make
time in the evening - but by all means study the Word. This will help you
to resist temptation (Matthew 4:1-11) and prepare you to explain your
faith to others (1 Peter 3:15).
Serve. The
Christian's life is to be a life of service (Mark lO:43,44). Instead of
waiting for others to do things for you, look for some opportunity every
day to do some deed of kindness for another individual. Your life will be
happier if you concentrate less on self and more on others.
Food For Thought
When our course is
controlled by God we will soar to heights we never imagined.
You can tell a man's
character by what he turns up when he is offered a job - his nose or his
sleeves.
We
hope you find this bulletin useful in your Bible study.
2
Sam 22:31
As for God, His way is
perfect; The word of the LORD is proven; He is a shield to all who trust
in Him. NKJV
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