Is The Young Man
Safe?
John Isaac Edwards
This question was first
asked by David when he expressed concern for the well-being of his son
Absalom (2 Sam. 18:74-33). Fathers and mothers today need to be
concerned about the safety and welfare of their boys and girls. Absalom
was dead when David asked this question. Some parents wait too late to
show their interest and concern. Young people need to be concerned about
self as they have responsibility to God. The safety and welfare of the
young man is dependent upon several things. The
young man is safe when he: ...
Has Purpose Of Heart
Absalom had a
rebellious heart. He attempted to take the kingdom from his own father.
The young man must make his heart right and secure with God. Daniel was
a faithful servant of God because he “purposed in his heart that he
would not defile himself” (Dan 1:8). Daniel planned ahead and put
it in his mind that he would not do anything that would dishonor him
before God. Many do evil because they have no purpose of heart (2 Chron
12:14). David urged Solomon, “Now set your heart and your soul to
seek the Lord your God” ( 1 Chr. 22:19). How is your heart?
Remembers His Creator
The wise man
exhorted all future generations of young people, “Remember now thy
Creator in the days of thy youth, while the evil days come not, nor the
years draw nigh, when thou shalt say, I have no pleasure in them”
(Ecc 12: 1). We have a Creator! We are made in the image of Almighty God
(Gen 1:26-27). Remembering your Creator involves more than just knowing
there is a God. It involves fearing God and keeping his commandments (Ecc
12:13-14), trusting in God (Prov 18:10) and being faithful in worshiping
God (John. 4:24). Do not wait until the dark days of old age creep upon
you to remember your Creator. Remember God while you are young. The
young man is not safe when he leaves God out of his life!
Takes Heed To God's Word
The Psalmist wrote,
“Wherewithal shall a young man cleanse his way? By taking heed
thereto according to thy word” (Ps 119:9). The young man must take
heed to God's word. The word of God helps in time of temptation (Mt
4:1-11). It keeps us from sinning so much (Ps 119:11). It furnishes
light to illuminate our pathway (Ps 119:105). The young man is safe when
he spends time on a day-to-day basis reading and studying the word of
God. Paul said, “Study to shew thyself approved unto God, a workman
that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth” (2
Tim. 2:15). Have you taken heed to God's word?
Honors And Obeys His
Parents
Absalom's downfall
was brought about by his wayward attitude toward his father. He waged
war against his very own father. Paul instructs, “Children, obey
your parents in the Lord: for this right. Honor thy father and mother;
(which is the first commandment with promise;) That it may be well with
thee, and thou mayest live long on the earth” (Eph 6: 1-3). Under
the Law of Moses the young man that did not honor and obey his parents
was put to death (Ex 21:15, 17), Let us follow the example of Jesus and
be subject to our parents that we might be safe (Luke 2:51).
Bears The Yoke
Jeremiah revealed, “It
is good for a man that he bear the yoke in his youth,” (Lam 3:27).
The Bible teaches us to work with our hands (Eph. 4:28; 2 Th. 3:10).
Industry is a safeguard to the young man. The busy youth can say to the
tempter, “I am doing a great work, I cannot come down” (Neh
6:3). Idleness and slothfulness lead to hunger (Prov 19:15) to rags (Prov
23:21), and to gossip and tale bearing (l Tim 5: l-3). Parents do their
children an injustice by not teaching them to work! “He that
gathereth in summer is a wise son: but he that sleepeth in harvest is a
son that causeth shame” (Prov 1:5).
Chooses Good Friends
Whether we realize
it or not, those we associate with influence us in either a good or bad
way. Solomon recorded, “He that walketh with wise men shall be
wise: but a companion of fools shall be destroyed” (Prov 13:20).
If we think that we can run around with unrighteous and ungodly people
and not be influenced by their ways, we are only deceiving ourselves. “Be
not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners” (1 Cor
15:33). We must not desire to be in the company of evil men (Prov 24:1).
Many a young man has been led to ruin by failing to choose good friends,
Choose to associate with those who will help you make it to heaven and
you will be safe.
Flees Youthful Lusts
There are lusts
that are peculiar to the young man, Paul told the young man Timothy, “Flee
also youthful lusts: but follow faith, charity, peace, with them that
call on the Lord out of a pure heart” (2 Tim 2:22). A young man
named Joseph was tempted to lie with his master's wife(Gen 39:7-12). The
Bible says that Joseph “refused” “left his garment in her hand,
and fled, and got him out” (Gen. 39:8 12) James taught, “But
every man is tempted, when he is drawn away of his own lust, and
enticed. Then when lust hath conceived, it bringeth forth sin: and sin,
when it is finished, bringeth forth death” (Jas 1:14-15). The
young man is safe when he runs away from youthful lusts.
Lets No Man Despise His
Youth
The young man
Timothy was admonished, “Let no man despise thy youth; but be thou
an example of the believers, in word, in conversation, in charity, in
spirit, in faith, in purity” (1 Tim 4:12) The young man must not
allow others to look down upon him because he is young. To prevent this,
you should live in such a way that will cause others to respect you. The
young man must be an example of what a believer is. When the young man
lets no man despise his youth and is a living example of the believers,
he is safe.
Marries The Right Person
The wise man
penned, “Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of
thy youth,” (Pr. 5:18). Who you choose to marry is one of the
greatest choices you will ever make in life. Marriage is not something
you do today and undo the next. Marriage is a life-long relationship
between a man and a woman (Mt. 19:5-6). Who you marry will have an
impact upon where you spend eternity. Marry someone who has the right to
marry! Marry someone who has the same beliefs and goals that you have.
Marry someone who will help you make it to heaven. Here is something to
keep in mind: you will marry someone that you date. So date someone who
you would consider marrying. The young man is safe when he marries “in
the Lord” (1 Cor 7:39).
Is Ready To Die
Death is certain!
Solomon announced, “For the living know that they shall die” Ecc
9:5). Paul taught that “as in Adam all die” (l Cor 15:22).
The Hebrew writer revealed, “. . . it is appointed unto men once to
die, but after this the judgment” (Heb 9:27). Death is an
appointment that all must keep and the time of which is unknown to man.
The Psalmist stated, “I am afflicted and ready to die from my youth
up” (Ps 88:15) Young man, are you ready to die? If you are not
ready to die, then you are not safe.
The safety of the
young man depends upon several things. It is written, “Rejoice, O
young man, in thy youth; and let thy heart cheer thee in the days of thy
youth, and walk in the ways of shine heart, and in the sight of shine
eyes: but know thou, that for all these things God will bring thee into
judgment. Therefore remove sorrow from thy heart, and put away evil from
thy flesh: for childhood and youth are vanity” (Ecc. 11:9-10).
Are you safe?
THE WRATH OF GRAPES
We have been treated to
many dramatizations on television of the time when mankind first
discovered fire, but we wonder also about the serendipity when he first
discovered fire water.
What was the occasion and
what was the reaction when man finished off his first cup of fermented
grape juice? Did he immediately start brewing a second batch or did he hop
on the wagon, leaving the wrath of grapes to some other poor unfortunate.
Who knows if Noah was the
first, but he was the first to have his binge recorded for posterity. The
mighty man of ark fame became a farmer once the water receded, planted a
vineyard, and made wine. Enough did he drink that Noah became intoxicated
and shamed by his own son.
In a dramatic reversal of
the more common practice, some young women got Lot drunk and took
advantage of him. Turned out it was his daughters who fretted over his
lack of a male heir and so conspired to make him drink wine so that both
could take turns laying with him. Each girl became impregnated; the
Moabites and Ammonites were the result.
Events like these led
inspired writers to describe the wrath of grapes in dramatic terms.
Solomon's seven verse proverb in chapter 23 is an ancient public service
announcement on the perils of drink.
Today, society considers
alcohol to be a temporary solution to sorrow, marital strife,
disappointment and fear. Ancient wisdom, however, rightly noted that all
these things are as likely to be caused by drink as temporarily relieved
by it.
"Who has woe? Who has
sorrow? Who has contentions? Who has complaints? Who has wounds without
cause? Who has redness of eyes? Those who linger long at wine, Those who
go in search of mixed wine.”
Experience suggests and
scripture confirms that salving a troubled life with drink is like rubbing
salt in an open wound. Neither a bender nor a beer run will alleviate a
single woe; more likely, they will cause a few, for alcohol is a
depressant that lowers both inhibitions and reactions. These so-called
spirits shrivel a man's soul while making him feel ten feet tall. He is
less inhibited against fornication, adultery, even rape. He is unable to
discern an inability to walk or drive safely. Temptations to resort to
verbal and physical violence are made almost impossible to resist in the
intoxicated state.
The effect on young ladies
is just as scandalous. The weaker vessel in a drunken state becomes a rag
doll in a wicked man's hands. She is unable, morally or physically, to
resist him.
Some will argue that social
drinking is no danger, so long as one knows when to say when. If, then,
drunkenness is sinful, but drinking is not, pray tell where is the line
that clearly distinguishes the two states? Is it the same for everyone and
does it increase as the body requires a little more each time to approach
a buzz?
Surely, the New Testament
teaches us to crave sobriety instead (Rom. 13:12-13). The apostle Peter
begs Christians to swear off the will of the Gentiles, which includes
drunkenness, half-drunkenness and social drinking. First Peter 4:3
condemns all these:
drunkenness (a state of
total inebriation)
revelries (the
riotousness of half-drunken fellows, aware enough to do harm and not
drunk enough to pass out)
banqueting or drinking
parties (an assembling together for the purpose of drinking socially)
Proverbs 23:31 gave much
the same counsel, however: "Do
not look on the wine when it is red, When it sparkles in the cup, When it
swirls around smoothly; At the last it bites like a serpent, And stings
like a viper.”
If it is foolish even to
gaze on the temptation, why would one think it permissible to imbibe a
little? Wine and beer are enticing before they ever reach a person's
hands. They are portrayed in advertisements as the essence of
sophistication or real fun. Those who drink them appear to be physically
fit, financially set and magnetic to those of the opposite sex.
The commercials don't tell
the truth, however. None depicts the drunk driving accidents that claim
thousands of lives every year after a little or a lot of alcohol has been
imbibed by suddenly less cool people. None shows the role alcohol plays in
date rape, domestic abuse and disease. All could be avoided if we learn
not to play with poisonous snakes.
Lastly, there is alcoholism
to fear. When it comes to drink, there are two types of people who do -
those who actually can drink without becoming addicted to it and those who
turn into hopeless drunks who would trade their lives and souls for
another sip (Prov 23:33-35). Until you take that first drink, you have no
way of knowing which category will claim you.
For a young person with big
dreams in life, that is too great a risk to take. Say when, before the cap
is unscrewed or the cork is popped.
--J.S. Smith, Woodmont
Beacon, Feb. 18, 2001

SHE KNEW TOO MUCH BIBLE
A little girl was invited
by a priest to attend religious instruction. She refused, saying it would
be against her father’s wishes. The priest said that since he was a
religious instructor, she should obey him, not her father.
"Oh, Sir," she
replied, "We are taught in the Bible ‘Honor your father and your
mother."
"But I am your
spiritual Father," said to priest -- to which she replied,
"No. The Bible says,
‘Call no man your father upon the earth for one is your Father, which is
in heaven.’"
The priest was not anxious
to lose a religious discussion to one so young. He said, "You have no
business reading the Bible."
"But," she
replied, "Then why did the Spirit say, ‘Search the Scriptures’?"
He answered, "But that
command is only to the clergy. Surely you know that a little child cannot
understand the Scriptures."
"Then why," she
asked, "did Paul say to Timothy: ‘From a child you have known the
holy Scriptures’?"
Surely there was some way
to get the best of this young upstart. Said the priest, "Timothy was
being trained to be a bishop and he was taught by the church
authorities."
"No, sir," said
the little girl. "He had been taught by his mother and his
grandmother. At least, that’s what Paul said."
The priest turned away and
someone said they heard him mutter, "She knows enough Bible to poison
a whole parish."
--author unknown (Adapted
from The Key Word, Memphis, Tenn)
"SCIENTIFIC"
DATING METHODS
by Greg Gwin
The Bible clearly teaches
that we live on a relatively "young" earth. Based upon what is
taught in the Bible, the earth can not possibly be more than 6,000 to
8,000 years old. It is absolutely impossible to harmonize what the Bible
teaches concerning the age of the earth with the claims of some
evolutionists. They would have us to believe that the earth is billions of
years old. In defense of the "old earth" model, some would offer
the "proof' of various "scientific" dating methods. Some of
the better known dating methods are Uranium/Lead; Potassium/Argon; and
Carbon 14. Each of these methods attempts to establish the age of things
by measuring the levels of radioactive isotopes present in the substance
and comparing this to assumed original levels. These tests often yield
apparent ages in the range of millions of years. Can these
"clocks" be trusted? In order to have a reliable
"clock" some things are necessary, such as: The clock must be
set correctly at the beginning of the test period. The clock must not be
disturbed or reset during the test period. The clock must run at a known,
constant rate.
As an example, compare
these necessary things to the Uranium/Lead "clock." Uranium
(U-238) is constantly converted to Lead (Pb-206). By measuring the
relative amounts of Uranium and Lead in a sample, scientists claim the
ability to "date" a given sample. But: We do not know the
setting of the "clock" at the beginning of the test. It is
assumed that there was no lead in the sample initially. This simply cannot
be proved. It is assumed that no external sources contaminated the sample
during the test period. In reality there may have been many natural
factors that either added to or took from the levels of Uranium and Lead
in the test sample - thus resetting the "clock." It is further
assumed that the decay rate of Uranium into Lead has always been the same.
This may be true, but it cannot be proved. Knowledgeable scientists admit
that possibility that such rates may have varied over time making it
impossible to know that the "clock" rate was always constant.
The various methods of radioactive dating simply cannot be trusted to be
reliable over the time periods they presume to test.
The Spirit Expressly
Says ...
1 Tim 4:1-6
Who Are These People
People often ask,
"What is the Church of Christ?" Some have wondered if we are a
cult, although the cult characteristics are not present: not the
brainwashing; not the one man head; not the headquarters at some earthly
spot. Neither are we connected with the Christian Scientists, the United
Church of Christ nor the Mormons. We are not a part of what is commonly
called, "the Pentecostal movement." We have not written a creed
for a church to go by. There are no organic ties with other Churches of
Christ. No denominational ties whatsoever.
On the other hand, this is
simply a congregation of Christians who are nothing but Christians. Our
likeness and fellowship you see between us and others who call themselves
churches of Christ is due to the desire all of us have to get back to
original Christianity as described in the Bible and as existed in the
first century.
Because Jesus Christ "Is
the head of the body the church" (Colossians 1:18). Come and
serve God with us. Worship is at 9:30 AM with Bible Classes at 11:00
AM.
Food For Thought
OUR WORDS May hide our
thoughts ... BUT OUR ACTIONS Will reveal them.
We
hope you find this bulletin useful in your Bible study.
2
Sam 22:31
As for God, His way is
perfect; The word of the LORD is proven; He is a shield to all who trust
in Him. NKJV
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