July 9, 2000 Volume 1 Number 28


Casual Attire At Worship
Larry Ray Hafley

 (Prologue: A deacon in a large midwestern church wrote with respect to the "heat" he was receiving because of his protest against casual, sloppy, intemperate dress worn by some to worship services. My remarks to him follow below.)

I commend your stand. As you noted, we cannot make specific dress code laws, perhaps, for one's economic status must be considered Jas. 2:1-4. However, when Joseph was called from prison to meet before Pharaoh, "he shaved himself, and changed his raiment" Gen. 41:14. What does that say about decorum and propriety?

While the story of the centurion who thought himself unworthy to entertain Jesus is not about clothing, it illustrates a principle of modesty with respect to being in the presence of our august Lord Lk. 7:6, 7. How does sloppy, slovenly, intemperate, immodest dress relate to that principle?

There is a "former manner of life" which is to be "put off" Eph. 4:22. Some of the particulars of that "former manner of life" are specified in Eph 4:25 through 5:18 and in 1 Pet 4:3. One's life in Christ is to stand out in stark contrast and bold relief against the former lifestyle 1 Pet. 4:4. In that same connection, regarding "the time past of our" lives, we are now to be "ashamed" of it. We are to be "ashamed" of how we once lived Rom. 6:21. We were conformed, shaped, molded, patterned after the world and its intemperance and immodesty, but now we are to be transformed, having put on the new man Rom. 12:2; Eph. 4:22-24. Put all those texts together. Now, what does our dress reflect with respect to our "former manner of life"? Does our dress cause people to think it strange that we run not with them, or does it suggest that we live like they live, act like they act? Does our dress place us with the ungodly and lump us with the world of iniquity?

Prov 7:10 mentions a woman clad "in the attire of an harlot." That statement means something, else, why did the Holy Spirit cite it? If a TV show wants to portray a prostitute, how do they dress her for the role? (Rather, how do they undress her for the role!) While it's true that one "cannot (always) tell a book by its cover," I think we all know the difference between Playboy and the Bible!

When the wild man, "Legion," was cleansed of his demons, he later was found "sitting at the feet of Jesus, clothed, and in his right mind" Lk. 8:35. Is it too much to ask that those today who are "sitting at the feet of Jesus, (be) clothed, and in (their) right mind"?


Dress, Appearance, Impression
Larry Ray Hafley

 In a cover article in Time Magazine (June 22, 1998), the following snippet concerning Michael Jordan appeared:

"'The 15 seconds it takes for him to go from the elevator to the bus is the only time in [his fans'] lives that they would see him. Jordan wants those 15 seconds to be dignified. Because he knows forever those will be the 15 seconds that they saw Michael Jordan.' (Columnist BOB GREENE, on how Jordan dons a suit and tie for the brief walk through the hotel lobby out to the bus taking him to a game.")

For good or ill, how you dress, your appearance, makes an impression on other people. Michael Jordan knows it. So does Dennis Rodman, his "sideshow-freak" teammate. Why else do you suppose Rodman dresses as he does? He knows it makes an impression. He does not care. Jordan knows it makes an impression. He cares. Do you?

No, we are not suggesting that you need to "make a fashion statement" in order to impress people. However, we do need to realize that the way we dress says a lot about us. Again, if you doubt it, compare Michael Jordan and Dennis Rodman!

When Joseph was summoned out of the prison where he was held and was taken into the presence of the great Pharaoh (or King) of Egypt, the Bible says, "When he had shaved himself and changed his clothes, he came to Pharaoh" Gen. 41:14. Joseph realized that prison garb is not the proper attire in which to meet the King! Is there a lesson in there for us?

There is no dress code for scriptural worship. Indeed, some have served the Lord in scant attire, dirty clothes, and nakedness brought on by deprivation, poverty, and persecution 2 Cor. 11:27; Heb. 11:37; Jas. 2:2.

Those unfortunate and unavoidable conditions are no excuse for us to see how grungy and unkempt we can be when we serve the Lord.

Women know how to dress when they want to express virtue or incite lust Gen. 38:14, 15; Prov. 7:10; Est. 1:11; 1 Pet. 3:1-4. Men know how to dress to lay bricks, hunt deer, or meet the bank president when applying for a loan.

Do we know how to dress to exemplify modesty, dignity and integrity as we serve God?

Apparently some do not, for there has been a gradual lessening of standards of dress in our society. Schools and business offices have been overtaken by slovenliness if not outright sloppy indecency. Some churches are not far behind. Crude "T" shirts, shorts, ragged, purposely torn jeans, and immodestly slit dresses are the rage in some houses of worship. Why are the voices of modesty and appropriate behavior not raised in holy protest against all such descents into depraved dress Phil. 4:5; Titus 2:12? Probably those voices are not heard because such clothing is the product of homes where such despicable dress has never been challenged or questioned.

Your dress does give an impression of you. It may not always be fair or right, but it does say something about you. Joseph thought so. Jordan thinks so. God says so Phil. 1:27; 1 Tim. 2:9; 4:12; Titus 2:4, 5, 7; 1 Pet. 3:1-4.  


Home and Family:

What Can I Do As A Young Person

The finest young people in the world are associated with the churches of Christ. They are washed in the blood of the Lamb, zealous, dedicated, pure, strong and faithful 1 Jn. 2:14. We want you to know that we love you and want you to "be all that you can be" for Christ and His Cause.

Christianity is not a spectator sport, it demands involvement I Cor. 15:58; Mt. 25:24-26. If one is old enough to obey the Gospel, he is old enough to labor in the vineyard of Christ. There are no apprentices in the shop of salvation. No "try it before you buy it" plans for Christianity. You do not have to be eighteen to be in the Lord's army. No Visas are needed to enter His kingdom. Every worker is expected to use his talents, abilities and opportunities for the good of the group.

TEENAGERS CAN OBEY THE GOSPEL. God is against infant baptism, but He does want every sinner to come to Him. Too many think they will become Christians later in life, but then never do Ecc. 12:1. They are interested as adolescents but disinterested as adults. Many will be eternally lost because they decided not to decide 2 Thess. 1:8. Their tender hearts said, "Yes," Satan whispered , "Later." And they listened to the Serpent.

God wants you in the water Acts 2:28. That is, if you believe that Christ is His Son (Jn 3:16) and you are willing to repent Lk. 13:3. This is where it all begins. You cannot serve Christ until you do.

TEENAGERS CAN WORSHIP GOD. Have you ever stood in the presence of the Governor of California? Have you ever been in a room with the President? Few have, but each has a much greater privilege this Sunday. We stand in the presence of the Maker of heaven and earth! Teenage Christians are in that group. Do not ever miss an opportunity to worship God -- He deserves the praises of every voice in the world. Never deny Him His glory Heb. 10:25. Young men should be allowed (encouraged) to take leading roles in worship -- teach them to lead singing, preach, work on the Lord's Table and lead prayers.

God expects teenagers (as well as others) to worship Him reverently Jn. 4:24. Worship is not time for talking, passing notes, sleeping or cutting up. It is a time when hearts are set on pleasing God and minds are filled with spiritual things Mt. 5:6; Psa. 96:7.

TEENAGERS CAN LIVE RIGHT. Some adults see the years of youth as a time to sow wild oats, but sober-minded young people know better. These years belong to God Eph. 5:16; I Cor. 6:19,20. God expects every one of His children to give Him a sanctified life Titus 2:6,12; I Tim. 4:12,15-16. At whatever age, it is time now to be adding the Christian virtues 2 Pet. 1:5-8 and to incorporate the beautiful attitudes Mt. 5:3-10. Sowing wild oats precipitates a harvest that no one wants Gal. 6:7. Why have to pray for "crop failure" when there is a better way?

TEENAGERS CAN BE INVOLVED WITH THE LOCAL CHURCH. Obviously, teenagers are not qualified to do everything that others might do. Elders and deacons are not taken from teenage classes. But because one cannot do some things does not mean that he cannot do anything.  

There are many things that young people can do. In fact, their energy, free time and zeal allows them to do more than many adults. Young people are terrific at door-knocking for meetings and Vacation Bible Schools. They meet people well, enjoy working with other teenagers, and especially like the opportunity to do something real for Christ. Young people are good at visiting; especially with old people. It does them so much good to see a young person coming with a flower or hug. Young Christians, especially girls, are good at sending cards to the sick and delinquent.

Teenagers are better at bringing their friends to meetings and regular services than almost all adults. They can be good soul winners. They have a wider circle of friends than most adults and find their friends have more open minds than many adults. For these reasons, young Christians lead many souls to Christ Mk. 16:15.

Young people, you have a bright future in the church. We treasure the opportunity to help you grow stronger. Listen closely, learn well, for in not so long, you will be where we are. Not very exciting, you say? Try it, it just might be the most challenging thing you will ever do. 

 ~Allen Webster


Without A Word

A member of the church, who previously had been attending services regularly, stopped attending. After a few weeks the preacher decided to visit him. It was a chilly evening. The preacher found the man at home alone, sitting before a blazing fire. Guessing the reason for the preacher’s visit, the man welcomed him, led him to a big chair by the fireplace, and waited.

The preacher made himself comfortable but said nothing. In the grave silence, he contemplated the play of the flames on the burning logs. After some minutes, the preacher took the fire tongs, carefully picked up a brightly burning ember, and placed it to one side of the hearth all alone.

Then he sat back in his chair, still silent. The host watched all this in quiet fascination. As the one lone ember’s flame diminished, there was a momentary glow and then its fire was no more. Soon it was cold and “dead as a doornail.” Not a word had been spoken since the initial greeting.

Just before the preacher was ready to leave, he picked up the cold, dead ember and placed it back in the middle of the fire. Immediately it began to glow once more with the light and warmth of the burning coals around it.

As the preacher reached the door to leave, his host said, “Thank you so much for your visit and especially for the fiery sermon. I shall be back at worship next Lord’s Day.”

~Author Unknown
(from the Railroad Avenue Church of Christ Bulletin)
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Who Is Sitting In Your Seat?

A preacher met a lukewarm Christian on the street Monday morning. The man knew he was in for a lecture because the preacher had often talked about failing to attend the worship services. Thinking he would beat the preacher to the punch and take the sting out of the rebuke, the man began his greeting by making a frank confession. "Well, my seat was empty again yesterday," he said.

"Oh, no!" exclaimed the preacher. It wasn't empty at all!"

"What?" asked the absentee. "Who was there?"

The preacher replied, "Satan was there in your seat, leering at me and saying, 'I've got him again, preacher!'"

The careless member repented and was in his seat the next Sunday.

--Author unknown, submitted


Sentence Sermons

"Men stumble over the truth from time to time, but most pick themselves up and hurry off as if nothing happened."

                                       ~Winston Churchill


We hope you find this bulletin useful in your Bible study.

2 Sam 22:31
 As for God, His way is perfect; The word of the LORD is proven; He is a shield to all who trust in Him. NKJV


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